Upcoming trial for Council seat
Posted: Tue Jun 22, 2010 5:49 pm
Without trying to start a flaming war of wills here I want to see if we can find some common ground. Last night spiralled like a plane with no wings into the ground at high speed.
So I'm gonna point out some things I see on both sides of this issue.
1. If you take out the knowledge of dual clienting, ventrillo, guild chat, alliance chat, all that and go strictly IC
A. Would anyone without OUTSIDE knowledge know or have known that the Jhelomites were NOT different players each? Truly, not some justifiable excuse but if your char was a real person?
B. If Beauvina is "crazy" is there any clause in the constitution to define someone being "crazy" or forbidding excentric folk from holding office? Would a rational Council approve membership if there were questions?
C. Does the council have the right to overrule the vote of the citizens of the city as to whom they wish to represent them?
D. Does lack of decorum, respect for proper ettiquette in the time taken from members of the council count for anything?
OOC points
1. There are past issues, old wounds and personality conflicts that exist here, its fact.
Rumor A: Silverbrook is already on the council as Councilor of Magincia? Has neglected duties or withdrawn/retired/whatever without notice?
Rumor B: There have been harsh words, and negative emotions between two key players in this scenario that go back months/years.
Report C: Many are finding this disruption of roleplay over this seat to be consuming and or destroying the opportunities others have to participate and launch rp plots etc and that has been more of an opinion altering event than any of the rumors and past things that they may not have been privvy to.
2. The Constitution maybe out of keeping with the current existence of RP and population on the great lakes shard. 3 years ago we battled months over should it be 5 different characters* or players* required to gain a seat on the council, should it be 3 or should it be more than 5. It ate up months of time bickering over how to address election to council with the declining number of roleplayers.
A. Letter of the law
B. Spirit of the law
There are two different sides to laws, and in this situation 4 because we also have IC and OOC
Fact we have what 20 different players if all are active, currently available and not on a time out from gaming?
Yew is by far the best representation of citizenry. Tokuno seems to be up there but is NOT a crown city is its own empire. Newcastle has held its seat and spot despite having been nearly a ghost town, because there had to be so many at its inception it did NOT have to maintain those numbers. Whispering Winds is a ghost town, Minoc is dead there are not enough people to win an election registered to that city who actively play.
So I'd propose that if we have a warm booded, breathing roleplayer, who wants to participate welcome them. NOW I know there are concerns about being over run, about griefers, lack of dedication blah blah
I left this community as did many other because of this very thing, the drama, the hurt feelings, the resentment, and unwillingness to compromise and work together. I found Atlantic to be less drama, but mainly because the ruling council there is made up of guild leaders in the ARPC, and guildleaders are expected to control their members, if the bickering, flame wars and petty squabbles disrupt the communities right to gather, your expected to boot that member from your guild or the guild is dropped from the alliance. It is about the good of all not the one gulid or one player. Single member guilds pose an problem you have no choice but to kick the guild. It was a nice visit, the plot lines and stories there were too foreign for me to really feel part of. My history was on Great Lakes. We lost a lot of folks to atlantic, many who when that wasn't the answer left game for new territory.
What I am asking is for all of us, to come clean be honest, is this issue because I dislike someone, is it IC, is it someone else's fight, am I passing judgement without ever knowing the person behind that character? Its ok not to like everyone IF you have given them a chance and decided for yourself. What is not ok is to sabbotage or torpedo the community or other players because you have a grudge.
I am flattered many remember Tanda and me as her player fondly, I never considered myself much of a roleplayer. It is this energy draining, exahausting dramatic confllct that is behind my reason to leave and not come back to the HC 3 years ago. My move to Atlantic did allow me to bury and forget most of the past. I have found I'm a pretty good organzer, I put on a mean event and MOA and I fit together, but what many of the shard show that we don't in this community is appreciation and gratitude for the work of others. MOA has been active on ths shard for 10 years now. There are times when staffers have not gotten along, but we hold a guild meeting, talk it out and if bad comes to worse then we agree to disagree and do what is best for MOA, and even if hurt feelings are there its left there or you choose to leave if you can't work past it, if tht's not an option players have been removed. Patrons say thank you, they gift us gold to give away, the come to know us and icq you about big events in their lives. The people of the shard keep us going for over a year now it has been 7 players hosting 2 weekly events 50 weeks a year, we cover shifts for each other, work short staffed, give up our own gold, items,time whatever it takes. Its that sense of committment and dedication that is so addicting.
An effort is made to recognize the community is more than the Chancellor and the High Council whom ever that person/s maybe.
Respect becomes a first priority for all toward all, agree, disagree what have you it is addressed outside game.
Recognize that many others are concerned this issue is going to boil over and spill out into all interaction where duty or rp requires these conflicting personalities to be in the same proxmiity therefore exclusion of one seems a safer response, even if it is contrary to being an open community.
Choosing a side, and being immovable doesn't serve anyone, compromise and understanding is necessary to move forward.
*Characters or players were key concerns, One is IC, each character that you roleplay should be able to vote for whomever on behalf of what ever community they reside in. As each character is IC a different person. Now the OOC thing came into this arugment years ago because they were concerned then it would become he who owns the most accounts wins. I think that comes back to honesty and truth to character and respect you don't sandbag or torpedo someone because of personality confilcts.
So I'm gonna point out some things I see on both sides of this issue.
1. If you take out the knowledge of dual clienting, ventrillo, guild chat, alliance chat, all that and go strictly IC
A. Would anyone without OUTSIDE knowledge know or have known that the Jhelomites were NOT different players each? Truly, not some justifiable excuse but if your char was a real person?
B. If Beauvina is "crazy" is there any clause in the constitution to define someone being "crazy" or forbidding excentric folk from holding office? Would a rational Council approve membership if there were questions?
C. Does the council have the right to overrule the vote of the citizens of the city as to whom they wish to represent them?
D. Does lack of decorum, respect for proper ettiquette in the time taken from members of the council count for anything?
OOC points
1. There are past issues, old wounds and personality conflicts that exist here, its fact.
Rumor A: Silverbrook is already on the council as Councilor of Magincia? Has neglected duties or withdrawn/retired/whatever without notice?
Rumor B: There have been harsh words, and negative emotions between two key players in this scenario that go back months/years.
Report C: Many are finding this disruption of roleplay over this seat to be consuming and or destroying the opportunities others have to participate and launch rp plots etc and that has been more of an opinion altering event than any of the rumors and past things that they may not have been privvy to.
2. The Constitution maybe out of keeping with the current existence of RP and population on the great lakes shard. 3 years ago we battled months over should it be 5 different characters* or players* required to gain a seat on the council, should it be 3 or should it be more than 5. It ate up months of time bickering over how to address election to council with the declining number of roleplayers.
A. Letter of the law
B. Spirit of the law
There are two different sides to laws, and in this situation 4 because we also have IC and OOC
Fact we have what 20 different players if all are active, currently available and not on a time out from gaming?
Yew is by far the best representation of citizenry. Tokuno seems to be up there but is NOT a crown city is its own empire. Newcastle has held its seat and spot despite having been nearly a ghost town, because there had to be so many at its inception it did NOT have to maintain those numbers. Whispering Winds is a ghost town, Minoc is dead there are not enough people to win an election registered to that city who actively play.
So I'd propose that if we have a warm booded, breathing roleplayer, who wants to participate welcome them. NOW I know there are concerns about being over run, about griefers, lack of dedication blah blah
I left this community as did many other because of this very thing, the drama, the hurt feelings, the resentment, and unwillingness to compromise and work together. I found Atlantic to be less drama, but mainly because the ruling council there is made up of guild leaders in the ARPC, and guildleaders are expected to control their members, if the bickering, flame wars and petty squabbles disrupt the communities right to gather, your expected to boot that member from your guild or the guild is dropped from the alliance. It is about the good of all not the one gulid or one player. Single member guilds pose an problem you have no choice but to kick the guild. It was a nice visit, the plot lines and stories there were too foreign for me to really feel part of. My history was on Great Lakes. We lost a lot of folks to atlantic, many who when that wasn't the answer left game for new territory.
What I am asking is for all of us, to come clean be honest, is this issue because I dislike someone, is it IC, is it someone else's fight, am I passing judgement without ever knowing the person behind that character? Its ok not to like everyone IF you have given them a chance and decided for yourself. What is not ok is to sabbotage or torpedo the community or other players because you have a grudge.
I am flattered many remember Tanda and me as her player fondly, I never considered myself much of a roleplayer. It is this energy draining, exahausting dramatic confllct that is behind my reason to leave and not come back to the HC 3 years ago. My move to Atlantic did allow me to bury and forget most of the past. I have found I'm a pretty good organzer, I put on a mean event and MOA and I fit together, but what many of the shard show that we don't in this community is appreciation and gratitude for the work of others. MOA has been active on ths shard for 10 years now. There are times when staffers have not gotten along, but we hold a guild meeting, talk it out and if bad comes to worse then we agree to disagree and do what is best for MOA, and even if hurt feelings are there its left there or you choose to leave if you can't work past it, if tht's not an option players have been removed. Patrons say thank you, they gift us gold to give away, the come to know us and icq you about big events in their lives. The people of the shard keep us going for over a year now it has been 7 players hosting 2 weekly events 50 weeks a year, we cover shifts for each other, work short staffed, give up our own gold, items,time whatever it takes. Its that sense of committment and dedication that is so addicting.
An effort is made to recognize the community is more than the Chancellor and the High Council whom ever that person/s maybe.
Respect becomes a first priority for all toward all, agree, disagree what have you it is addressed outside game.
Recognize that many others are concerned this issue is going to boil over and spill out into all interaction where duty or rp requires these conflicting personalities to be in the same proxmiity therefore exclusion of one seems a safer response, even if it is contrary to being an open community.
Choosing a side, and being immovable doesn't serve anyone, compromise and understanding is necessary to move forward.
*Characters or players were key concerns, One is IC, each character that you roleplay should be able to vote for whomever on behalf of what ever community they reside in. As each character is IC a different person. Now the OOC thing came into this arugment years ago because they were concerned then it would become he who owns the most accounts wins. I think that comes back to honesty and truth to character and respect you don't sandbag or torpedo someone because of personality confilcts.